{"id":20564,"date":"2021-08-30T21:02:31","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:02:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/?p=20564"},"modified":"2021-08-30T21:02:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:02:31","slug":"%e5%84%bf%e7%ab%a5%e7%9a%84%e7%a7%98%e5%af%86","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/?p=20564","title":{"rendered":"\u513f\u7ae5\u7684\u79d8\u5bc6"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"2021\" src=\"http:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/wp-content\/gallery\/net\/childhoods-secrets.jpeg\" width=\"480\" class=\"framed\" \/><\/center><br \/>\nChildhood&#8217;s Secrets intimacy, privacy and the self reconsidered<br \/>\nMax van Manen and Bas Levering<br 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