{"id":24380,"date":"2022-07-13T10:10:50","date_gmt":"2022-07-13T02:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/?p=24380"},"modified":"2022-07-13T10:10:50","modified_gmt":"2022-07-13T02:10:50","slug":"%e9%98%85%e4%ba%ba%e6%97%a0%e6%95%b0","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/?p=24380","title":{"rendered":"\u9605\u4eba\u65e0\u6570"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.qiusir.com\/wp-content\/gallery\/net\/rapport.jpg\" width=\"480\" class=\"framed\" \/><\/center><br \/>\nRapport the four ways to read people<br \/>\nLaurence Alison &#038; Emily Alison<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rapport<\/strong>\u4e00\u8bcd\u6e90\u81ea\u6cd5\u8bed\u5355\u8bcdrappoter\uff0c\u610f\u4e3a\u4fee\u590d\u3001\u91cd\u5efa\u3002\uff08\u9ed8\u5951\u3001\u878d\u6d3d\u3001\u548c\u8c10\uff09<br \/>\n\u00b7HEAR\u539f\u5219<br 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